This site is dedicated to the experiences of gay bondage, the creation of gear related to bondage play, and likely other odds and ends…
My main philosophy – it’s all about enjoyment and having fun! Yes – some people may wonder about my (and likely your) definition of fun. I started many years ago in the kink world. If you listen to my brother, he’d tell you I was tying him up when I was about 8 years old. Maybe it was my grandfather’s experience in the Navy and him teaching me as a young kid on a farm knots with rope has something to do with it. Who knows when this all really started. I do remember many firsts in the various kinks:
- Electro – I had hooked up a PC (Intel 386 era) with a sound-card to a stereo amp. As a creative programmer I had some fun wave patterns and the help of many early electro stim user groups (bulletin boards, AOL groups, etc.) I got to learn early crafts in creating electrodes – soldering, etc.
- Bondage – The first time I tied up someone wasn’t until I started traveling for work right after college. Hotel room bondage and the things you can use to tie someone up could be a whole book one could publish… My travels also brought me into contact with Bound And Gagged. Great early inspiration for scenes 🙂
- Leather – I had experienced leather as clothing for a while, but, my first crafting with leather was with some left-over leather from a furniture project. A hand sewn jock strap.
- Cock and ball torture – I think I was a fan since a child. Fixated on self CBT as a kid and developing into the extreme desire to give others what I loved so much. I remember one of my first CBT toy projects was a hand crafted humbler. Where that thing ever ended up in the world I will never know.
Even after all these years, each interaction I have with people in the kink world I learn more. I love learning and sharing what I know. Thus – a great reason to start this site. Please be patient as a full time job, volunteering with organizations, a partner, a boy, friends and family leaves me a bit tired at the end of the day to do much contribution. But – I promise the posts will be informative and possibly entertaining.
If you’re closed minded, hateful, and just down-right mean-spirited – I’m not going to like you. You’re not going to like me. If you attempt to preach to me and others by using comments (or other internal/external means) on this blog, I will remove them and not feel bad about it. It’s my blog – not yours – and I’ll do what I want with it.