The bondage world is a great journey. No matter if you have 20+ years experience in this community or you’re just starting – you get to learn more about yourself and the folks you encounter each and every day.
This site is dedicated to the experiences of gay bondage, the creation of gear related to bondage play, and likely other odds and ends…
My main philosophy – it’s all about enjoyment and having fun! Yes – some people may wonder about my (and likely your) definition of fun . I started many years ago in the kink world. If you listen to my brother, he’d tell you I was tying him up when I was about 8 years old. Maybe it was my grandfather’s experience in the Navy and him teaching me as a young kid on a farm knots with rope has something to do with it. Who knows when this all really started. I do remember many firsts in the various kinks:
- Electro – I had hooked up a PC (Intel 386 era) with a sound-card to a stereo amp. As a creative programmer I had some fun wave patterns and the help of many early electro stim user groups (bulletin boards, AOL groups, etc.) I got to learn early crafts in creating electrodes – soldering, etc.
- Bondage – The first time I tied up someone wasn’t until I started traveling for work right after college. Hotel room bondage and the things you can use to tie someone up could be a whole book one could publish… My travels also brought me into contact with Bound And Gagged. Great early inspiration for scenes 🙂
- Leather – I had experienced leather as clothing for a while, but, my first crafting with leather was with some left-over leather from a furniture project. A hand sewn jock strap.
- Cock and ball torture – I think I was a fan since a child. Fixated on self CBT as a kid and developing into the extreme desire to give others what I loved so much. I remember one of my first CBT toy projects was a hand crafted humbler. Where that thing ever ended up in the world I will never know.
Even after all these years, each interaction I have with people in the kink world I learn more. I love learning and sharing what I know. Thus – a great reason to start this site. Please be patient as a full time job and volunteering with organizations leaves me a bit tired at the end of the day to do much contribution. But – I promise the posts will be informative and possibly entertaining.
If you’re closed minded, hateful, and just down-right mean-spirited – I’m not going to like you. You’re not going to like me. If you attempt to preach to me and others by using comments (or other internal/external means) on this blog, I will remove them and not feel bad about it. It’s my blog – not yours – and I’ll do what I want with it.